One thing that keeps popping up lately is about the "work". "Work", not in the sense of at the end of the month we will get paid. With "work" what is meant here today, is how much we want to see a change in our lives, in our health, in our relationships - be it our relationship with our body or human relationships -, to our results in general, so that we truly do what it takes in order to achieve this.
We all have what we call free will. The question is, what do we do with it? You see, the outside just reflects the inside. If what you see, what you are experiencing is something that you do not like as much, know that it is a simple reflection of what is inside of you. Our deep thoughts and beliefs, the words we use and our actions are what create our experience in life.
Carefully take care of your thoughts as they are more powerful than you can imagine. This is where your words will appear from, followed by the actions and consequently the results. If you see destruction and sorrow, then that's what you are projecting. If you feel deeply grateful for the abundance you already have in your life, more abundance is already on it's way to you.
The world is our mirror. It reflects back to us everything we project out. If you do not like the reflection that life shows you, then change what causes it. We have the ability, all of us, to really choose what we are experiencing and what our reality will be.
Let's see how we can do this in terms of relationships. Deep down you want to have harmonious and loving relationships. Trusting relationships, on which you can rely upon and yes, take strength when you need it.
How loving and harmonious are your relationships? Do you look at the other person thinking of how much you would want them to change, or do you really accept and love them as they are? Without ever meaning accepting abusive behavior, loving and accepting someone for who they are, is really what is known as unconditional love. Something, we all need to learn.
Do you ever catch yourself wondering why this person is so difficult and why it is behaving this way or another? What you actually do, is creating this behavior in the person you want to change, simply because you do not understand that "like attracts like". As we said, all thought is creative.
Take a person you love and bring to mind the negative thoughts you have about it. Do you notice that the behavior that you are experiencing from this person, matching the thoughts you have had about it? Yes, they must have done something to cause this thoughts and feelings, but we all have a bad day. The more you lay your focus upon this behavior, the more you will see from it. Observe. I think this is exactly what you will find out for yourselves.
Now, with this knowledge what do you do?
You can try the following:
When negative thoughts arise change your perspective, by focusing on what you love about this person. It may be their smile, or the way they make you feel, whatever that may be. Continue to send out positive thoughts. You may have a little work to do at first, but keep doing this. Be prepared, you are about to have an almost magical transformation!
We must always keep an eye on our thoughts and pay attention to their quality, because what we think is directly related to what we manifest. That which we see around us and what life shows to us. This is the difference between conscious and subconscious creation.
Cultivate a true love for life and all existence. Be grateful to the Infinite Creator, or how ever you prefer to name it. Everything is available to us, all we have to do is choose it.
You have survived so far.
You may not have what you want, but you have everything you need.
Be thankful for this. This is where everything starts from.
Sending you Love and Light,